That's easy to say: "You shouldn't keep quiet about tbe problems before it's too late". Yeah, specially if you don't have any panic attack being in the queue in the clinic. Being in the clinic because you already have the reason not to run there immediately, so you make the situation even worse over time. And later you're looking to your shoes feeling ashamed during a strict, but calm and attentive doctor's view is going to eat you up: "Are you afraid of doctors?"